The Integrated Personality

This lecture by His Holiness Pope Shenouda III speaks about the concept of the integrated personality in spiritual life, affirming that the true spiritual person does not live by one virtue at the expense of another, but gathers all virtues together in harmony and balance. Virtues do not contradict, but rather complement one another, just as God Himself gathers in His attributes mercy and justice, love and reverence, simplicity and wisdom.

First: Integration Between Virtues

His Holiness Pope Shenouda III emphasizes that a person should not hold to one virtue and leave the rest, because this leads to imbalance in personality.
Simplicity must be joined with wisdom, meekness with courage, obedience with discernment, and love with firmness.
The spiritual person is simple in heart and wise in mind, kind yet strong, loving yet firm when necessary.

Second: Love and Fear

It is a mistaken concept that love cancels fear. True love for God is not separated from holy fear.
We love God as a Father, and we revere Him as a great God.
Integration appears in the union of love with reverence, without excess or negligence.

Third: Firmness and Tenderness

In the family and in church pastoral care, love alone is not enough, nor firmness alone.
The successful father, mother, or shepherd is the one who combines tenderness and firmness, compassion and discipline.
Integration here means having a loving heart and a wisely managing mind.

Fourth: Contemplation and Service

The integrated spiritual life combines the life of contemplation and the life of service.
A person should not be so occupied with service that he forgets prayer, nor isolate himself in contemplation and neglect responsibility toward others.
The integrated person knows when to be alone with God and when to serve people, balancing both with wisdom.

Fifth: Faith and Struggle

Faith does not mean laziness, and struggle does not mean relying only on oneself.
The integrated personality believes in God’s grace and works at the same time.
It depends fully on God and strives with all strength, saying: without You I can do nothing.

The General Spiritual Message

The spiritual person is the image of God, and the image of God means balanced perfection.
Therefore, we must seek an integrated life in which no side overpowers another, but all virtues are harmonized, so the person becomes steadfast, wise, strong, and loving at the same time.

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