Care for widows
His Holiness Pope Shenouda III speaks deeply about the care of widows as a vulnerable group requiring special attention from the Church and society, explaining the psychological, social, and financial challenges they face, and the role of the priest and servants in supporting them and their children.
First: The biblical view of widows
His Holiness points out that the Bible often mentions widows and orphans together because most widows have children who need upbringing and support. He explains that the absence of the father creates a gap in authority and discipline, placing a heavy burden on the mother alone.
Second: The special challenges of the widow
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Absence of a man: no protection or social respect.
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Limited resources: small pension or restricted inheritance, with possible exploitation by relatives or others.
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Responsibility of raising and supporting children alone.
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Risk of being targeted or weakened, especially if she is young or beautiful.
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Feelings of loneliness, fear, and lack of support.
Third: Types of widows and the Church’s role
His Holiness divides widows into three types:
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A widow who remarries and becomes under the care of a new husband.
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A widow who does not remarry and supports her children, needing strong Church support.
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A consecrated widow dedicated to service, whose spiritual maturity enables her to serve within the Church.
Fourth: The Church’s responsibility toward widows
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Offering monthly financial aid, and seasonal support during feasts and school seasons.
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Providing suitable work: home-based, vocational, or within production or food projects.
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Supporting widows’ children through education or vocational training.
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Constant follow-up through visitation to know their needs and protect them from exploitation.
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Not stopping at consolation but presenting practical solutions that maintain dignity and stability.
Fifth: The spiritual and human dimension
His Holiness stresses the importance of helping the widow feel that her life has not ended, and that she has dignity, value, and a role before God and society. He encourages involving her in spiritual and social work to prevent loneliness and negative thoughts.
Sixth: The difference between the widow and the widower
He explains that the widower does not face the same dangers, while the widow is more vulnerable to greed, fear, and problems with children, making her care a pastoral priority.
Conclusion
The lecture is a clear call for the Church to identify widows’ situations, understand their needs, and provide comprehensive care for them and their children, in a spirit of practical love and living faith.
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