The Spiritual Trainings That Priests Give to Their Children in Confession

Pope Shenouda explains that sermons may convince the mind, but they do not change the weak will unless they become action. Therefore, spiritual exercises were given as a practical way to turn intellectual conviction into daily life and behavior.
The essence of spiritual exercises
In spiritual training, a person faces himself, discovers his weaknesses, and strives to overcome them to reach inner victory. The exercises are tools of spiritual struggle that translate faith into real practice.
Types of exercises
The Pope clarifies that there are general exercises for all the people or certain groups like youth, and private exercises given to each confessor individually according to his need. The confessor father should follow up and encourage his son in confession.
Conditions for successful training
The Pope stresses that exercises should be:
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Specific and clear — not general like “love” or “humility,” but small, practical points such as “do not speak about yourself,” or “avoid harsh words.”
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Within one’s abilities — considering age, health, time, and spiritual state.
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Gradual — beginning with simple exercises and then harder ones until the person becomes steadfast in them.
Continuity and firmness
He notes that training needs perseverance until it becomes a stable habit in the person; the longer he continues, the more deeply it becomes rooted.
Gradual fasting and speech control
He gives practical examples: gradual fasting (from the sixth to the ninth hour) and gradual control of speech—starting by reducing unnecessary words, then avoiding harsh expressions, until the tongue is sanctified.
Follow-up and evaluation
The Pope advises that the confessor should keep a “training notebook,” writing each exercise with related Bible verses to memorize and repeat. The confessor father must follow progress lovingly and firmly.
The role of prayer in success
Training cannot rely only on human effort; it must be accompanied by prayer: “Teach me Your ways, O Lord,” “Without You I can do nothing.” Strength comes from grace, not from willpower alone.
Correction and fatherly rebuke
He clarifies that rebuke is not judgment; it is the duty of the spiritual father who guides his children wisely. The difference between “judging” and “defaming” is that the former aims to correct, the latter to harm.
Discerning good and evil without judging
A believer may discern and avoid evil without condemning evildoers, because judging belongs to those with spiritual authority. The Christian is called to judge sin, not sinners.
Conclusion — The goal of spiritual exercises
Spiritual exercises are not an end in themselves but a means to transform the heart and strengthen the will through grace. Every success in them is a gift of God that should lead to thanksgiving and humility, not self-righteous pride.
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